YISHAR KOIACH !!!

i think that Joseph Topek has a point although Danielle Stillman has had a good question that joseph did not answer. maybe Aaron Potek coukd be a middle of the road way about it although it is very different then from the beit hillel /beit shamai dispute

As they say, "there is a lid for every pot."8

Hillel understands that there are multiple truths about beauty.  One needs to see beauty from another's eyes in order to avoid causing someone pain.  This emotional intelligence is a mitzva.  So too Kramer needs to have this EQ and find a way that she may not be a monster and thus not hurt her feelings.